Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.
Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on win ... Show More
Feb 26
The Conversation You’re Avoiding with Mel Robbins
You’re not crazy. You’re anxious.This week on Almost Adulting, Violet sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack high-functioning anxiety in love — why women attach fast, date potential, ignore red flags, and stay in relationships where they can’t ask for what they need. Mel breaks dow ... Show More
1h 21m
Dec 18
How To Master Your Emotions with Jay Shetty
If you’ve ever wondered why you settle, sabotage, or shut down.. this episode tells you the truth.Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta is joined by Jay Shetty - New York Times best-selling author, host of On Purpose, former monk, and one of the most influential voices in self-impro ... Show More
1h 13m
Aug 2025
How to Talk to Someone Who Doesn’t Like You
Let’s be real—there are people you don’t like, and there are people who don’t like you. That’s just life. But what do you do when you have to deal with them—at work, at home, or anywhere you can’t avoid them? In this episode, I’m sharing three simple strategies to keep your cool, ... Show More
14m 34s
Aug 2025
Body Language Expert: The #1 Cue That Makes People Dislike You
Ever wonder why some people just click with everyone? In this episode, I sit down with my friend Vanessa Van Edwards—behavioral investigator, author, and founder of Science of People—to break down the science behind first impressions, charisma, and connection. We dig into what pe ... Show More
55m 56s
Mar 2025
#917 - Vanessa Van Edwards - The Art Of Effortless Confidence & Social Persuasion
Vanessa Van Edwards is a behavioral researcher, speaker, and author.
How do you make a great first impression? How can I become more charismatic? How can I stop feeling awkward in social situations? We've all wondered about these things at some point. Luckily, Vanessa is an exper ... Show More
1h 22m
Sep 2025
#670: How To Get People To Really Listen To You
Do you ever feel invisible in conversations, overlooked in meetings, or ignored on social media — even when you know your ideas have value? In this episode, we dive into the art and psychology of being heard. You’ll learn why confidence alone isn’t enough, how to stop people from ... Show More
31m 58s
Feb 2025
Charisma Teacher: Psychology Of Why People Don't Like You! People Are Attracted To These Traits! The Secret To Being Instantly Likeable!
They say you either have charisma or you don’t, but Charlie Houpert proves charisma can be built, and reveals the secret code to mastering it for success in love, work, and friendship
Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of the confidence-building online platform, ‘Charisma on Co ... Show More
2h 15m
Jun 2024
2016: 6 Ways to Make People Like You
<p>On today's episode, we're diving into a recent mastermind meeting with our elite practice mastermind private coaching members. The focus of the discussion was on conversation, rapport building, and building trust quickly.</p> <p>Mark referenced Dale Carnegie's iconic book, "Ho ... Show More
19m 4s
Sep 2025
How To Stay In Control! Even When Conversations Turn Emotional
When someone gets emotional in conversation, it can be tough to know how to respond. In this episode, I share how to keep your cool without shutting them down or losing yourself in the moment. You’ll learn how to recognize your own physical reactions, ground yourself with simple ... Show More
22m 18s