Do you feel frustrated by recurring struggles with self-doubt, hypervigilance, and overwhelm?
Behind many of your inner doubts, self-judgements, fears, and insecurities lie echoes from old betrayals or relational hurts.
These breaches of trust in important relationships don’t necessarily lose their impact on how you lead and work just because they happened a long time ago.
So when you're doing something new or high stakes, or there's an experience in a relationship at work or in your personal life, or you respond to a collective trauma that taps the echoes of your old wound, it can bring up old ways of responding or old patterns that impact how you honor your boundaries and values.
And the expectation that you should ‘be over this by now’ when you are human and working with others adds to your stress and frustration.
But the reality is that healing from relational wounds and betrayal traumas often comes in stages and seasons, and you may need support along the way.
Deran Young is a licensed therapist, New York Times Best-Selling Author, former military mental health officer, and the founder of Black Therapists Rock. This nonprofit organization mobilizes over 30,000 mental health professionals committed to reducing the psychological impact of systemic oppression and intergenerational trauma.
She obtained her social work degree from the University of Texas, where she studied abroad in Ghana, West Africa for two semesters, creating a high school counseling center for under-resourced students. She is a highly sought-after diversity and inclusion consultant working with companies like Facebook, Linked In, Field Trip Health, and YWCA. Deran has become a leading influencer and public figure committed to spreading mental health awareness and improving health equity.
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