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Mar 2024
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The Most Valuable Lessons in Nurturing Y...

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist
About this episode

Everyone has their own unique blend of strengths and challenges. Giving kids opportunities to work on strengths is easy. But knowing how to guide and help them improve on areas where they struggle is not always so easy. Whether it's working through big emotions, giving up too easily, academics, taking responsibility or anything else, you will gain valuable insights into how to guide your child through their challenges with warmth and confidence.



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