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Mar 2024
39m 33s

Why Modern Society Makes Us Feel More Lo...

MARK MANSON
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I came across some mildly terrifying statistics on loneliness and wanted to figure out what was going on. In this episode Drew and I break down three paradoxes we're calling “The Three Paradoxes of Modern Loneliness” and they are as follows: We are more connected than ever, yet loneliness is at an all-time high The more urbanized our lifestyles become, the ... Show More
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