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Mar 2024
1h 11m

S18E4: The 333 Dating Strategy w/ Haifa ...

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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Date 3 People at a time, for 3 months, with 3 chances. Does this strategy work? We're chatting with Haifa about how her 333 Dating Strategy helped her find love after wasting four years on dating apps feeling unconfident and insecure. We're discussing the pros and cons of multi-dating, why it's important to give dating experiences time to see the person for ... Show More
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