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Mar 2024
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S18E4: The 333 Dating Strategy w/ Haifa ...

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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If you're looking for a new dating approach – we got you. We're chatting with Haifa about how her 333 Dating Strategy helped her find love after wasting four years on dating apps feeling unconfident and insecure. We're discussing the pros and cons of multi-dating, why it's important to give dating experiences time to see the person for who they truly are, and ways you can still be intentional while dating multiple people at once.

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