Aug 18
#717: The Circular Thinking Trap: How To Finally Close The Loop
In this episode, I’m teaching you my Circular Thinking Roadmap, a powerful reframing exercise that will help you get your thoughts out of your head, separate facts from stories, and finally close the mental loop. ✅ FREE CLASS! LEARN HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK Don’t ... Show More
27m 36s
Aug 11
#716: The Way You Talk to Yourself Is Determining Your Future | Stop Talking To Yourself Like This (And Speak Like This Instead)
In this episode, we're talking about why being hard on yourself isn't helping you become your best self, and what to do instead. You'll learn how to recognize the difference between accountability and self-criticism, why your inner dialogue matters so much, and how to replace sel ... Show More
25m 43s
Apr 2021
How To Think More Positively
What if I fail? What if I am no good? We all have negative internal talk at times in our lives and "What if (negative)" can really hold you back and limit you. Limit from your goals, your ability, situations, events and ambitions. If your internal chatter if holding you back and ... Show More
12m 39s
Dec 2024
How to Stop Making Yourself Depressed and Anxious
<p>Are you tired of letting overthinking and fear run your life? I'll break down the mental traps we all fall into—replaying worst-case scenarios, second-guessing everything, and staying stuck. Learn practical ways to silence the noise, stop hesitating, and make clear, confident ... Show More
17m 23s
Sep 2025
Feeling Stuck? How to Make Confident Decisions and Stop Overthinking
Do you find yourself second-guessing, overthinking, or stuck in indecision? In this episode of The Self Esteem and Confidence Mindset Podcast, we dive into the psychology of decision-making, confidence, and clarity. I’ll share practical tools to help you break free from analysis ... Show More
6m 35s
Feb 2023
What's The Worst That Can Happen?
Do you ALWAYS think about the worst case scenario? Do you find yourself imagining horrible things happening to yourself, your family, your loved ones? Do you always think that things just WON'T work out for you? First of all, it’s NORMAL, it is natural - our brains are literally ... Show More
23m 42s
Jun 2022
Ep 241. Transforming "What If" Thoughts Into "What Is" Grounding Exercise
Join Kelli as she shares a way to transform anxiety-inducing "what if" thoughts into a "what is" grounding exercise. If we're human, we're going to get bombarded by "what if" thoughts, so why not use those anxious thoughts as an opportunity to rewire our brain for more awareness, ... Show More
6m 8s
Jul 2025
What If It All Works Out?
<p>Episode 251: What If It All Works Out? | What if the spiral wasn’t a breakdown, but a sacred invitation to soften? In this solo pep talk, Shayla explores the shift from fear to faith, and how one simple question "<em>what if it all works out?"</em> can reroute your i ... Show More
13m 7s
Do you ever have find your brain getting stuck in a self-talk loop of "what ifs?" What if it doesn't work out? What if you don't really lose the weight? What if you don't really have what it takes? When you learn these 3 proven strategies to talk back to your "What If's" so you aren't held back any longer.
There's a fear narrative that chokes out the co ... Show More
<p class="p1">Have you ever found yourself stuck in decision paralysis?</p> <p class="p2"> </p> <p class="p1">You know what you want, but your brain keeps showing you all the ways it could go wrong. You try to think positive, but the "what-ifs" keep creeping in.</p> <p class="p2" ... Show More