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Mar 2024
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#590: The “What If” Voice and How to Tal...

Trish Blackwell
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Do you ever have find your brain getting stuck in a self-talk loop of "what ifs?" What if it doesn't work out? What if you don't really lose the weight? What if you don't really have what it takes? When you learn these 3 proven strategies to talk back to your "What If's" so you aren't held back any longer. There's a fear narrative that chokes out the co ... Show More
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