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Mar 2024
20m 35s

The Art of Arguing: Using Disagreements ...

Jim Kwik, Your Brain Coach, Founder www.KwikLearning.com
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Can the biggest conflicts in your relationship actually bring you closer and create deeper intimacy? Happy couples fight. But there is a difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy fighting. One leads to stronger marriages and relationships while the other ends in heartbreak, frustration, and loneliness. But even more importantly, how you fight can pre ... Show More
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