What if the answer isn’t to do more? What if the answer is to want less?
I’ve always believed that subtracting from your life can produce better results than trying to add something. Generally, quitting a bad habit, or a bad mindset, or anything distracting, will have a bigger impact on your life than learning more.
This episode covers a few things I think w ... Show More
Jun 3
How to Change Your Life, Solved
If you've ever tried to change something about yourself, failed, tried again, and concluded you must just be broken, here's some good news: you're probably not broken. You've just been aiming at the wrong target for years. Who you are is actually a layered system. There's your pe ... Show More
5h 6m
May 20
Why We Stay in Bad Relationships, Solved
Why do smart, emotionally aware people stay in relationships that are clearly destroying them? Drew and I dug into the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard marriage, to walk through the seven psychological mechanisms that quietly lock people inside bad relationships and make leaving feel ... Show More
1h 51m
May 6
How to Overcome Anxiety, Solved
Here's the uncomfortable truth about anxiety: most of what people reach for to fix it was chosen because it feels easy, not because it works. The supplement that went viral on TikTok, the CBD gummy, the glass of wine after a hard week... they range from doing nothing to actively ... Show More
2h 18m
Mar 2023
472: You Only Need to Change ONE Habit
<p>In the pursuit of becoming the best versions of ourselves, we often fall into the trap of trying to change several habits at once, hoping that'll get us faster to the finish line. But let's be real here, it rarely works out that way.</p> <p><br /> The truth is, when we try to ... Show More
55m 14s
May 2021
This One Thing Can Change Your Life
Have you ever heard the phrase “good in, good out. Bad in, bad out.”? The idea is simple, if you partake in good things you will get good results. If you partake in bad things... well, you see where we are going. But if practicing good things to get good results is so easy, why i ... Show More
33m 49s
Dec 2023
4 Important Life Lessons I Learned the Hard Way (So That You Don’t Have To)
<p>Want to know the 4 important life lessons that can make your life 10X better? </p><p>No matter what is happening to you, life is trying to teach you something. In this episode, Mel unpacks the 4 most important lessons life tries to teach everyone, and the sooner you learn them ... Show More
42m 50s
Apr 2023
How to quickly stop the negative habits and become a positive person.
This episode discusses why we struggle to stop negative habits and how to shift them into positive ones.How often have you started a workout program, new project, or endeavor to only fail a few weeks to months after starting? When we try to make a change, our current self wants u ... Show More
13m 27s