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Feb 2024
46m 23s

I Lost Him, But I Lost Myself Too

Esther Perel Global Media
About this episode
She lost her husband five years ago. Now, she's finally ready to start picking up the pieces of her life to begin dating. Esther talks her through what it might mean to reframe her memories of their relationship. This conversation contains discussions of depression and death by suicide. Please take care listening. For the first time on the U.S. stage, Esthe ... Show More
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