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Nov 2021
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43. Esther Perel Answers Your Relationsh...

Glennon Doyle and Audacy
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1. Why Esther often recommends letter writing if you don’t know quite how to start—or have—hard conversations.   2. What to say—and when to say it—to show up for a friend who is in a bad relationship. 3. The importance of rituals in transitioning through breakups—what we should do when it’s time to say goodbye; and what we can do if we’ve never gotten the cl ... Show More
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