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Feb 2024
1h 12m

The (real) Secret to Happiness: Attachme...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Forrest and Dr. Rick focus on the secret to everyday happiness: learning how to like without wanting. They talk about the lies our brain tells us, the rapid movement from liking to wanting, and how we can enjoy an experience without craving more of it. They then explore a specific example of getting captured by the brain’s “inner ad agency,” and what we can ... Show More
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