In today's full solo episode, I break down the viral video I posted where men say they'd rather date out of their league and women say they’d rather date below theirs. We break down why this is true, with input and opinions from men, and so much more.
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Nov 16
Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus
<p>Nate Berkus joins us to talk about the beautiful intersection between love, design, and the spaces we call home. He shares the story of how he met his husband Jeremia, and opens up about what it really takes to maintain a healthy relationship. We dive into how someone’s person ... Show More
50m 44s
Nov 9
The Loneliness Between Life Stages
<p>Today’s solo is about the loneliness we feel throughout different stages of our lives. I talk about the post-college void, the mid 20s relationship and splinter era, and the post-baby or settled down loneliness. I also discuss rules for dating around the holidays, texting habi ... Show More
58m 18s
May 2024
Cheating Scandal, Our Current Favorites + Taylor Swift Lore
<p>This one’s for the GIRLIE POPS! On this Pretty Basic episode, we chat about running into Scheana from Vanderpump Rules, the VPR finale, our current favorites, moon face and what Remi has learned as she approaches the 1 year mark with her PCOS specialist.</p><p><em>Sponsors:</e ... Show More
1h 13m
Jul 2023
official dating rules (ft. our husbands)
<p> This week, Chelsey & Jaci are joined by Nick & Leif! They catch up on recent fixations, if girls are funnier than boys, & more. Then they read your submissions & discuss some rules for dating: how many times should you compliment your date? Should you kis ... Show More
1h 9m
Jan 2024
Holiday Replay 2023 - Remi Got A Boyfriend?!
<p>WARNING: OUR VOICES. This episode was recorded in August 2019 and we were so little and thought we had it all figured out. Oh man were we wrong. Four-and-a-half years, a pandemic, and an engagement later, we get to listen to this episode and cringe with all of you. Picture thi ... Show More
50m 10s
Nov 2023
My Own Real Life Bachelorette
<p>My bestie (and dating detective) Justin Anderson is back to break down Raya with me and dish on my first date with "Hot Man" from the app. We discuss men's dating profiles, why I feel like I'm a catfish, if I would have another kid, Justin's big dick theory, and my epiphany wi ... Show More
48m 29s
Jun 2024
Remi and Cal’s Engagement Party
<p>This week on Pretty Basic, Alisha sits down with Remi and her fiancé, Cal, for a juicy and revealing episode you won’t want to miss! Get ready as Alisha grills the couple with both fun and serious questions about their relationship, delving into all the spicy details.</p><p>We ... Show More
1h 5m