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Dec 2024
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​​Exposing What Men Really Think About Y...

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On this week’s episode of Pretty Basic, Remi is joined by her fiancé, Cal, for a hilarious dive into the male psyche. They’re spilling guy secrets you’ve always wondered about but never dared to ask—like what really gives them the ick, why they secretly love taking orders, and whether they actually think about nothing (spoiler: maybe).From breadcrumbing and "rosters" to interracial dating and juicy sex Q&A (yes, post-nut clarity included), it’s the ultimate crash course in decoding dudes. 


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