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Jan 2024
1h 30m

My Forever Love (Guests: Gregg & Shakela...

LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD
About this episode

Can love survive after decades apart? In episode #803, Laterras sits down with Shakela and Gregg Matthews to recount their remarkable love story. Facing divorces, infidelity, and a journey of forgiveness, this story will take you from their initial teenage romance through personal struggles, marriages to others, and eventual reunion. Kela and Gregg's union is a testimony of commitment, forgiveness, and the power of timing. This conversation offers deep insights into dealing with betrayal, the importance of emotional healing, and the resilience of true love.

 

[00:00:00 - 00:02:21] Intro 

[00:02:22 - 00:14:55] Early romance and heartbreak

[00:14:56 - 00:20:33] The cost of a misunderstanding

[00:20:34 - 00:30:46] Reconnection attempts

[00:30:47 - 00:35:43] Gregg’s spiritual journey

[00:35:44 - 00:52:44] Facing infidelity

[00:52:45 - 00:59:38] The power of forgiveness

[00:59:39 - 01:04:11] Allowing yourself to be loved again 

[01:04:12 - 01:08:42] Back together after 24 years

[01:08:43 - 01:11:25] Kela’s message for women 

[01:11:26 - 01:13:16] Greg’s message for men

[01:11:26 - 01:14:52] Prayer for restoration

[01:14:53 - 01:16:57] Kela’s Book 

[01:16:58 - 01:24:20] Impact on family and friends

[01:24:21 - 01:30:02] Closing segment

 

 

Key Quotes:

"It was 24 years before we got back together. When I saw him again, he had always been there." - Shakela Matthews 

"I'm intentional about loving her because now I understand that I was able to be free in loving me." - Gregg Matthews 

 

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