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Jan 2024
40m 47s

are you the problem? (being aware of you...

Alex Adams
About this episode
Are you the problem? It's a big question. Sometimes we go on about our lives and never actually truly realize how we end up hurting people, dismissing their feelings, causing conflicts or creating problems. In this episode, we go through some common mistakes we can make in relationships, and sometimes are never really aware of them. It's so important to take time to self reflect in relationships, so we can see how we can improve and cultivate better, safer and more loving relationships with our partners, friends or family. It's never too late to turn things around and focus on growth in all areas of our lives! I love you all, enjoy.

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