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Mar 2023
1h 28m

Why A Woman Must Never Pursue A Man & Th...

Impact Theory
About this episode

Today’s narrative of the independent, strong, secure, empowered woman says we can do anything we want without a man’s approval. We are not victims or damsels in distress, we are total badasses capable of being CEO of Fortune 500 companies, caring mothers, best friends, truck drivers and construction workers.

With all that we are and all that we do there are still biological differences we may be ignoring in our fight against society’s narrative of oppression.

Is pursuing a man that you’re interested in a defiance of our biological nature or an act of defiance against what men in society say we shouldn’t do?

Pastor RC Blakes is a voice for female empowerment that doesn’t dance around hard conversations and addresses the realities women are struggling with in society. He’s the bestselling author of Queenology, Father-Daughter Talks, Soul-Ties and more. He and his wife, Lisa, also host women's conferences to bring healing and power to women in search of a better version of themselves free of abuse and manipulation.


Today’s conversation brings us some interesting points, some of which may be triggering:

What happens when women pursue men

Why women can’t behave like toxic men without consequences

Instead of looking for a high-value man, seek out what it takes to be a high-value couple with the right person

“Submissive” doesn’t have to be trigger, it can be a clear indication of the man you're with


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