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Jan 2024
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How to Feel Loved & Cherished In Your Re...

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[Original air date: 2-13-19]. In this special Valentine’s Day episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, she and special guests Steph Purpura and Emily Morse get real about relationships. Steph Purpura spent her childhood feeling worthless but as an adult she’s found herself and put in the work to live an amazing life.

With her husband she runs a company called Powerful-U. Emily Morse, also known as Sex with Emily, has a doctorate in human sexuality. She is a sex and relationship expert with one of the top relationship podcasts in the world.


SHOW NOTES:

Why we repeat past relationship mistakes [04:58]

How to develop a strong sense of self-worth [08:03]

Why you need to focus on loving yourself before loving someone else [11:42]

The first step to loving yourself [13:18]

What to do when you have toxic people in your life [15:46]

Why you can't make other people's emotions about yourself [19:33]

How to avoid making assumptions [22:12]

What to do when past issues come up in a new relationship [24:51]

The importance of building communication skills [26:47]

Why you can't put your relationship on the back-burner [33:38]

Why you need to prioritize intimacy [37:48]

Learning to enjoy sex and intimacy [41:32]

How to set your partner up for success [46:34]


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