logo
episode-header-image
Jan 2024
41m 50s

What to do when they pull away + the bes...

Lyss Boss
About this episode

NEW YEAR, NEW EPISODES! FINALLY, I have my very first guest on the Date Yourself Instead podcast, my dear incredible friend Jemma Sbeg, who hosts the Psychology of Your 20's podcast. In this episode, we discuss what to do when someone pulls away from you, and we also cover tons of widely popular dating topics + YOUR sent in questions!!!

If you've enjoyed this episode, feel free to always message me on instagram @lyss or on the podcast instagram @dateyourselfinstead.

Jemma's socials: @thatpsychologypodcast and @jemmasbeg

Be sure to check out Jemma's podcast here.

JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS

Also remember to sign up for my free higher self meditation, and free worksheet! :) xx

Up next
Oct 4
Let them walk. If you know you deserve better, you do.
In this episode, I talk about the power of just letting people walk if they choose to leave your life. Instead of chasing, begging, or trying to prove your worth to anyone, it’s about standing strong in who you are. I share my own experiences and lessons, and I remind you that he ... Show More
28m 35s
Sep 27
Give me 20 minutes to shift your reality.
20 MINUTES. That's all it takes. In this video, I emphasize the importance of taking control of your life by focusing on healing both your mind and body. Through my personal experiences, I highlight how physical wellness directly impacts your ability to manifest and achieve your ... Show More
30m 23s
Sep 18
Why you should bet on yourself.
In this episode, I’m diving into the importance of choosing you and really investing in yourself so you don’t end up with regrets later. I open up about my own journey of rebranding my business and my podcast, Date Yourself Instead—why I felt like it was time for a big change as ... Show More
38m 19s
Recommended Episodes
Aug 2023
35. For You: The Dating Advice We Wish We Knew Sooner
You sent in your dating struggles; we pulled our best advice out of our asses. In this strange new world of app dating, constant anxiety, and ever-changing standards, how do we stay true to ourselves when looking for connection? Not super well, but everything we've learned in ... Show More
1h 29m
Jul 2023
33. WHATADO: Spicing Up Your Relationship, Being the Single Friend, and Texting the Ex HBD
WHATADOS are back, and though Jess and Caroline are physically falling apart and can't agree about hair removal strategies, their non-advice to the kooks is ready to rage. First up, keeping the fire alive in a long-term relationship - including asking for what you want (both ... Show More
1 h
Apr 2023
20. WHATADO: Vanity, Trust Issues, and Spreading 'Em
This week Caroline and Jess are recording TOGETHER IN THE FLESH, and you'll hear our excitement right away. Yes, we know the sound quality suffered our first time with an in-person setup, but that's why 1) we're constantly saying we're not professionals and 2) our ... Show More
1h 2m
Jul 2023
32. Not for That Pic of Your New Man + Weird Turn-Ons
Caroline and Jess are back together at last and have very little to show for their time apart. No insights or reflections, no hot takes; just more contributions to the hot cat/cartoon crush directory. We also have plenty to say about our recent air travel experiences and the mise ... Show More
1h 3m
May 2023
22. Hater Hour: Ways I’m Furious with Myself and with Society
Introducing Hater Hour - like happy hour but weirder and darker and probably happening at 2am. With Jess out sick, Caroline takes on her FIRST EVER solo podcast episode, responding to a bunch of listener-submitted topics as she yearns for her mommy alone in her apartment. First, ... Show More
48m 7s
Jun 2023
In love with a criminal
Does this episode make you feel simulated or stimulated? This week on the pod; Katy, Colbie, and Adam catch up after Adam's hiatus. Does Katy have a runner up to the never ending date? Does Colbie match with Zach Bryan on Raya? Does Adam revisit old client flings in San Franc ... Show More
1h 6m
Feb 2024
Mirror, mirror on the wall
What's your superlative? We're all class clowns after this episode. This week on the pod: the trio interviews for reality TV, Adam revisits the boy [with the rat] who got away, and the trio humbles the Paul's doormen (after getting humbled themselves). We talk what we ... Show More
1h 10m
Feb 2023
February Q&A: Starting Podcasts, Spicing It Up In Relationships, Making Friends At Work, Texting Guys, Goal Setting, And More!
Hi, my loves, and welcome to the first monthly Q&A episode! In today's episode, we're chatting about starting a podcast, goals, reminders to keep in mind when you're working towards a goal, talking to guys, spicing it up in relationships, making friends at work, and s ... Show More
40m 46s
Oct 2023
EP 84. Broken Boundaries In A Relationship
Hi, Girlypops! Happy Monday and welcome to episode 84 :) We are so glad you're here and listening this week! On this episode, our host, Ally, shares a few quick updates with you guys followed by some of your submissions and topics. She chats over a variety of subjects such as ... Show More
39m 39s
Aug 2023
34. Not for UFOs + The 10 Steps of Making Up with Your Mom
As usual, a compliment turns into a larger conversation about coveting hotness and beauty standards, as Jess and Caroline agree that the only thing they (or any of us) really care about is sex and attraction. But is beauty work a lie, or is it simply a way to masquerade in an ide ... Show More
1h 8m