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Jan 2024
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Ep. 222 - Shame before, during and after...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
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In today's episode we explore the intricate layers of shame before, during, and after a breakup. Drawing from a recent coaching session, Breakup Coach Dorothy navigates the often-overlooked aspects of shame. This episode serves as a beacon for those wrestling with breakup-induced shame, offering actionable steps towards self-affirmation, self-love, and personal empowerment in the journey towards healing and self-discovery. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on overcoming shame and embracing resilience in the aftermath of a breakup.

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