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Jan 2024
10m 39s

Let Go of Perfection and Control

FOCUS ON THE FAMILY
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No matter how hard you try, you can't be the perfect parent. Jim Daly and Ashley Willis bring up why it's good to let go of perfectionism. Also, Danny and John address what to do when your kid makes a bad decision that you disagree with.

 

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