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Jan 2024
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I Ditched The “THAT GIRL” Mindset To Bec...

Lily Rakow
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What if you ditched the "THAT GIRL" trend to step into a better, beautiful, and bold version of yourself? This year is all about transforming into THIS WOMAN! In the first episode of this 10 week series, Lily challenges the "THAT GIRL" trend through looking at what it really means to embark on a self improvement journey. Then, Lily walks you through her perspective shift, and why it's important to prioritize knowledge and character when considering any personal development methods.

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