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Oct 2018
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Q and A: When should your partner say, “...

Susan Winter: Professional Love and Life Mentor
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Marie writes, “My question might be elementary, but when should a partner say, "I love you"? I am a woman in my 30s who has been dating a man in his 40s for 10 months. The relationship has been thoughtful, mature, and (dare I say) loving, but he has yet to say, "I love you." I have been waiting for him to say this phrase first, but am I being old-fashioned o ... Show More
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