I’m joined by Dani Kravette, a longtime friend and 27 year old navigating modern dating in NYC. We chat about being a “boyfriend girl,” feeling surrounded by friends in relationships, and debate if someone’s reason for ending things actually matters. We dissect her Hinge profile, chat about not drinking on dates, discuss her dealbreakers, and cackle over her ... Show More
Jul 8
Why You’re Still Stalking Your Ex and What Actually Helps You Heal
Breakups today aren’t just about letting go of a person — they’re about navigating texts, timelines, algorithmic reminders, and the pressure to "heal fast." Therapist and Lonely Hearts Club founder Lexi Joondeph-Breidbart joins Ilana to unpack what actually helps people move on, ... Show More
56m 8s
Jul 3
Lessons From the Ones Who Weren’t My Person
In this Unfiltered, a listener shares the hard truths she’s learned through dating, heartbreak, and situationships. From realizing you can’t force someone to like you, to learning that overcompromising and over-efforting doesn’t lead to love, she reflects on the patterns she’s fi ... Show More
1h 9m
Mar 2024
Girly Chats #9 can you be friends with your ex? am I missing out by not being single? am I rushing things with my bf?
It's been a lil while since I've done a full girly chats episode and I have to say it was kind of cathartic😅 today I'm answering all your questions and dilemmas ranging from, 'can you be friends with your ex?' to, 'am I missing out by being in a long term relationship since I wa ... Show More
39m 35s
Jun 2020
62: TBF x We Met At Acme: Answering Your Dating and Relationship Questions
In this episode I talk to Lindsey Metselaar, host of the hit podcast We Met at Acme, about all things dating and relationships. We talk about dating apps, hookup culture and dating f*boys; how to make the first move and get what you want in a relationship; the dreaded "what are w ... Show More
40m 32s
Nov 2022
101: Nick Viall: Can You Text Your Ex? Toxic Love + Dating Q&As
The former Bachelor’ star, Nick Viall, joins Syd and Soph this week to get candid about his current relationship status, the process of writing his new book titled “Don’t Text Your Ex Happy Birthday,” and why we should walk into our first dates with confidence.
Nick gives unfilte ... Show More
50m 49s