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Nov 2023
10m 53s

Do We Need To Forgive Somebody To Move O...

Allison Carmen
About this episode

Forgiving someone can be challenging, especially when they don't apologize or make amends for the pain they've caused. Despite our desire to let go of the lingering hurt, it can be difficult. Tune in to this podcast to explore an alternative path for moving beyond past hurts, allowing space for new joy, hope, and possibilities in your life.

After listening to this podcast, you might want to learn more about the Hoʻoponopono, a traditional Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness. It has helped to clear my mind, lift my spirits, and practice self-forgiveness.

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You can also follow me on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Twitter, and LinkedIn. If you are interested in my work, please check out my books, "The Gift of Maybe: Finding Hope and Possibility in Uncertain Times" (including a new audiobook) and "A Year Without Men: A 12 Point Guide To Inspire and Empower Women." 

Above all, my sincere wish is that this podcast has contributed to less suffering and more joy in your life!

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