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Nov 2023
36m 26s

#67: Problematic (Dramatic) Men: How to ...

ADRIENNE EVERHEART
About this episode

Is your man prone to anger, blame, or criticism instead of providing the support you need?

Problematic, high-conflict dramatic men are often drawn to powerful dynamite women (like yourself!)

Some negative traits include:

  • Twisting logic to support their need for attention
  • Creating drama
  • Portraying themselves as a victim
  • Avoiding the topic at hand or using distraction to avoid taking responsibility
  • Blames instead of Problem Solves!

Q: Why do some men do this?

A: Because they cannot problem solve and get much more attention from you with conflict.

I have a free scripting guide you can get here.

Problematic men have all or nothing black-and-white thinking, where you become the target of their own internal struggles. Whether you are in love with a high-conflict man or seem to attract men who want to bicker and blame - this pod episode offers you Feminine Energy solutions.

The man in your life can become the PROBLEM SOLVER, instead of you fixing him and the relationship.

I share POWERFUL Feminine Energy tools to create and restore peace and balance to your relationship.

Read the BLOG where I got out of the car to protect my BOUNDARIES : https://everheartcoaching.com/blog/conversations-in-the-car/

XOXO, Adrienne Everheart

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