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Nov 2023
34m 35s

“I Don’t Want to Work Hard—I Want to Be ...

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The world sucks. Your imagination is probably a nicer, safer place. The listener in this episode is writing in to ask if it's irresponsible to give herself permission to be delusional. If everyone else on TikTok can be delulu, why can't she?

Our guest Antoni Bumba is a transgender content creator dominating multiple niches with her notorious pop culture parodies, astrology hot-takes, and daily unfiltered vlog-style videos. She’s known on TikTok as the originator of “The BBL Effect” trend.

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