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Nov 2023
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The MAIN Cause of BREAKUPS (Do THIS to H...

Lewis Howes
About this episode

In this special episode of The School of Greatness sponsored by BetterHelp, Lewis chats with Haesue Jo, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp. Haesue's expertise lies in Asian American mental wellness, anxiety and stress management, relationship and family dynamics, and trauma relief. We discover how childhood trauma can significantly impact their current relationships, gain insights into valuable lessons single individuals can learn in therapy to enhance their future relationships, and explore the benefits of couples therapy in strengthening relationships.

The episode also delves into the reasons behind couples breaking up and emphasizes the importance of self-love in fostering healthy relationships. Haesue Jo sheds light on the concept of self-sabotage and the challenges of taking actions that are beneficial but difficult.

For those seeking help today, BetterHelp is a valuable resource, and you can learn more and sign up at betterhelp.com/greatness.

In this episode you will learn

  • How childhood trauma can impact current relationships.
  • Valuable insights for single individuals to improve future relationships through therapy.
  • The benefits of couples therapy in strengthening relationships.
  • The importance of self-love in fostering healthy relationships.
  • Tips for processing trauma and grief.

For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1528

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