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May 2023
43m 1s

7 Biggest Turnoffs for Men

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode
In this episode of the podcast, hosts Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski dive deep into the 7 biggest turnoffs for men. The problem they address is that many women believe that turnoffs have to do with physical attributes, but the reality is that when a man is in the market for a serious relationship and looking for a high-value partner, turnoffs become e ... Show More
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