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Mar 2023
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My 7 Easy Strategies to Make a First Dat...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
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It's no secret that first dates can be freaking awkward. I once saw a man go to shake a woman's hand when she was reaching over the table to grab some bread. #awkward But what if I told you that first dates don't have to be that awkward and can actually be fun? A few years ago I was working as a dating coach on a reality TV show helping Kate Gosselin attract ... Show More
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