My bestie (and dating detective) Justin Anderson is back to break down Raya with me and dish on my first date with "Hot Man" from the app. We discuss men's dating profiles, why I feel like I'm a catfish, if I would have another kid, Justin's big dick theory, and my epiphany with what my issue has been when it comes to dating and men and what my game plan is ... Show More
Oct 6
You Never Really "Get Over" Grief
In this episode, I’m opening up about grief, losing my brother Mike, and what it’s really been like learning to live with his absence.I share the story of losing him unexpectedly, the shock and heartbreak that followed, and how grief has changed for me over nearly 11 years. I tal ... Show More
48m 1s
Sep 29
How to Spot a Controlling Partner with Justin Anderson
Justin and I are getting real about the manipulation tactics and red flags that can show up in dating—especially the ones that can be disguised as care, concern, or even a joke.We talk about men who try to minimize your wins, criticize you under the guise of “helping,” confuse pr ... Show More
1h 5m
Sep 22
The Biggest Things I’ve Learned About Parenting
In this episode, I’m opening up about the kind of relationship I’ve worked hard to build with my three kids... and why, more than anything, I want them to know they can always come to me.We’re talking about trust, honesty, boundaries, accountability, one-on-one time, and giving y ... Show More
48m 41s
Dec 2024
Exposing What Men Really Think About You
On this week’s episode of Pretty Basic, Remi is joined by her fiancé, Cal, for a hilarious dive into the male psyche. They’re spilling guy secrets you’ve always wondered about but never dared to ask—like what really gives them the ick, why they secretly love taking orders, and wh ... Show More
1 h
Sep 2018
#16 Dating, Boyfriends & Female Sexuality with Olivia Petter
This week I speak to one half of the independent's @millennial_love podcast, and also one of my best friends of over 10 years; about dating, female sexuality, how family relationships effect romantic relationships and lots more. I hope you enjoy- as always please do rate, review ... Show More
55m 34s
Sep 2024
Why Am I Not Good Enough For Him?
On this episode of Pretty Basic, Alisha and Remi dive into the world of situationships, exploring the low-level commitment and fantasy that often surrounds them. They discuss why we're more protective of others than ourselves, the importance of staying true to who we are, and how ... Show More
1 h
Feb 2023
What Men Struggle With The Most When It Comes To Dating ft. Blaine Anderson
On today’s episode, I sit down with Blaine Anderson, a dating coach for men. Blaine and I discuss the craziest thing a man has said to her in a dating session, the male perspective on dating, meeting her husband at a workout class, what women would be surprised to hear that men s ... Show More
1h 2m
Jul 2021
My Boyfriend Gives Me THE ICK?!?
This week the girls bring you another advice column episode! They answer your questions about living with your SO, age gaps when dating, getting rid of expectations, & lacking “experience” with boys. SHOP OUR MERCH DROP: shop.DearMedia.com/whatwesaid FOLLOW US! INSTA// WWS Jaci C ... Show More
42m 36s