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Nov 2023
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47. Jess Thots: Finding Joy as a Middle ...

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It's a solo episode this week as your lover comes to you from the depths of her heart at a time when joy is hard to find. She shares a bit about her experience as a first generation Lebanese American, then moves on to a highly requested topic: her *Official* Dating Show Rankings.

Next, Jess feels seen by a recent DM, asking her to talk about how to set boundaries at work, prioritize being simultaneously kind and strong, and find joy in day-to-day life. Plus, new ick unlocked - the only objective way to know if a couple be f**kin'.

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