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Nov 2023
15m 44s

10 Seconds To Better Behavior

Dr. Cathryn
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If you've ever felt drained from negotiating, bribing, or enforcing time-outs, tune in to discover a simple yet effective tool to turn the tides: your attention. Learn how shifting your focus to what your child is doing well can create lasting change, illustrated by real-life examples. Join us as we help you navigate the parenting journey with big-hearted, e ... Show More
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