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Oct 2023
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710 - GIRL TALK: Annie Undone on Polyamo...

Kathy Kay
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Annie Undone calls in to talk all about polyamory and relationship anarchy and discusses why she no longer considers herself polyamorous and instead is a relationship anarchist, what a relationship anarchist is, how and why her and her husband divorced and how she still kept her other relationships going, how and why she eventually broke up with her girlfriend and decided to be “monogamous” with her boyfriend, their romantic and sexual exclusivity and what that entails, her queer platonic partnership she now has with her girlfriend and what that looks like, the boundaries she has with all her partners and how they all have reacted to them, their no abandonment rule and what that means, her jealousy, where an when its come up and how and why she accepts it, how and why she is in the process of de-escalating her owner/property relationship, what polyamory has brought up for her and what she’s learned from it, how she’s done every single type of relationship style and why she believes knowing that there are many options is super important plus a whole lot more. Stay tuned for short update on all her relationships at the end of the episode.


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