Oct 2023

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#115: 5 Things Secure Couples Do Well

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In today's episode, we're talking about 5 things that secure couples do really well to build safety, intimacy and connection in their relationships. We'll cover:

raising important issues and knowing when to let things go
prioritising connection, play and intimacy
validating each other's experience rather than needing to be right
balancing togetherness and separateness
engaging in meaningful repair when things go awry

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