Dec 13
Mind Reading Isn't a Sign of Love
Have you ever thought: “If they really loved me, they’d just know without me having to say it.”But expecting someone to intuit your needs isn’t romantic – it’s magical thinking. In this episode, I talk about why unspoken expectations lead to disappointment, the shift you need to ... Show More
4m 50s
Nov 22
Feel More at Ease When All Eyes are on You
<p>My guest today, Sunalie, is a warm and gifted journalist – and also a former client of mine.</p><p>During our time together, she had so many meaningful wins. Hearing about the specific shifts she made will help you strengthen your own confidence and communication skills – incl ... Show More
27m 13s
Oct 2023
How can I overcome my fear of speaking in public?
According to a study conducted by the Statistic Brain Research Institute in 2016, 74% of the global population feels uncomfortable speaking in front of an audience. That might be an oral exam at school, a presentation at work, or even making a toast at a birthday party for exampl ... Show More
4m 19s
Mar 2023
How to feel confident about your VOICE
<p>In this episode...</p> <p>Do you cringe when you hear your own voice?</p> <p>Does it make you self-cautious, feel awkward, and not confident about yourself?</p> <p>Sebastiaan discusses a common problem among people: disliking a part of themselves, and offers a solution through ... Show More
14m 28s
Dec 2022
313 SelfWork: Five Steps to Build Your Social Muscle and Tackle Self-Consciousness and Social Anxiety
Generally, when someone is called “a bundle of nerves,” they’re not describing a state of being that’s pleasant or desired. Those nerves could range from the fairly common experience of self-consciousness, where you have a heightened sense of yourself, to actual social anxiety, w ... Show More
26m 52s
Introvert Emergency Kit Click here if you're ready to become a less anxious, more charismatic public speaker. When it comes to public speaking, what exactly are you afraid of? Most people I talk to don’t explore their fears at all – and this makes them worse. The thought of public speaking brings up such uncomfortable feelings that they try to ignore th ... Show More