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Oct 2023
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A Guide To Becoming Your Own Best Friend

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#114. How well do you know yourself, REALLY? One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my 20s is that knowing, loving, and supporting yourself is the key to confidence (and possibly an underrated antidote to loneliness). In this episode, we are talking about becoming your own best friend in 4 crucial steps. 


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