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Oct 2023
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75 - It's Time To Stop Taking Things Per...

Cartia Mallan & Ashton Wood
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Whether it's someone bumping into you on the street... or your ex cheating on you, we all take things personally sometimes! But, understanding where the other person is mentally can help to understand their actions and take the pain off yourself. This week, Su & Lu share the details of how they learnt to stop taking things so personally. Plus... Mantra of th ... Show More
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