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Oct 2023
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Why you should be honest with your cowor...

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It’s hard to be honest about something not going well at work. Eliana, today’s caller, is struggling to navigate a classic problem — a coworker unwilling to improve or communicate. She knows it’s time for a drastic change but still wants to be kind. Anne and Frances share how to get over the fear of giving feedback and discuss why we can all benefit from having tough conversations at work.

Transcripts for Fixable are available at go.ted.com/fixablescripts.

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