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Sep 2023
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Healing From Complex Trauma & Narcissist...

Abuse Survivor Network
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In this episode, Brandon talks with Dr. Ingrid Clayton about healing from narcissistic abuse and complex trauma. Dr. Clayton shares her personal story as we discuss her memoir, 'Believing Me', a powerful recount of her childhood trauma from a psychologist's perspective and her healing journey. Dr. Clayton also navigates through the heavy waters of trauma responses, reenactments, and how these reactions often lead to relational trauma and self-abandonment. 

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*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses childhood sexual abuse. ***


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