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Sep 2023
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92. YOUR SHADOW SELF... what keeps you j...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
Hi my loves, in today's episode we chat about why we judge ourselves AND others ⬇️

-the root cause and reason for our self judgement and why we criticize others
-what is our shadow self
-why we suppress emotions
-the real reason you don't love or accept yourself
-the difference between evolving from a place of self love versus self hate
-while we tend to feel so disconnected with others
-the importance of moving from victim mentality to creator mentality
-how to finally start loving yourself again
AND MORE 💗

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