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Sep 2023
36m 4s

My Marriage Sucks After Having Kids - De...

Audacy and Big Little Feelings
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Deena gets vulnerable and shares how having babies rocked her marriage, plus: The raging resentment that's left them feeling like roommates Why 90% of parents feel unhappier in their marriage after having kids (!!!)  What's stopping her from working on the relationship right now (is it too far gone?)  Busting the myth that "staying together for the kids" is ... Show More
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