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Sep 2023
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90: Do Relationships Really Need To Be H...

LOVERS by shan
About this episode
Have you ever been told that relationships require hard work? Well, it's time for a reality check with therapist Nina Westbrook who is married to NBA All Star Russel Westbrook! Nina shares their experiences and insights on relationships and even addresses people who say that Russel could do better than her- her response will inspire you.


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EXTRAS
in this episode I reference Naval Ravikant
And used a clip from Esther Perel’s videos https://youtu.be/ejTBjX4Cu6Y?si=uy7tyOEeYAZnxs5Q

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