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Aug 2021
27m 47s

115. Jealousy, Comparison, & Codependenc...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode
In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I'm talking about how jealousy and comparison relate to codependency. I'll also break down the steps on how to stop comparing yourself to others and how to finally overcome the jealousy! Here are a few points I cover: The core feelings that we are trying to experience What to focus on when it comes to overco ... Show More
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