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Aug 2021
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115. Jealousy, Comparison, & Codependenc...

Beatrice Kamau
About this episode

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking about how jealousy and comparison relate to codependency. I’ll also break down the steps on how to stop comparing yourself to others and how to finally overcome the jealousy!

Here are a few points I cover: 

  • The core feelings that we are trying to experience
  • What to focus on when it comes to overcoming jealousy
  • How to partner with jealousy and look for abundance

These feelings of jealousy, comparison, and anxiousness come from the idea that you’re doing something wrong. You're not doing anything wrong. You're exactly where you're supposed to be and you're doing exactly what you should be doing. Remember, you are on your path. There’s no race. You bloom when it’s time.

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