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May 2023
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BPD & Relationship Dysfunction - The BPD...

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<p> Xannie, Alex, Lena, Melanie and Céline discuss various patterns of dysfunction in romantic relationships experienced by people living with borderline personality disorder. The Bunch share some of their stories, and how they&#39;ve learned to manage relationship dysfunction more effectively. Support us on patreon: patreon.com/thebpdbunch Join the BPD ... Show More
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