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Sep 2023
1h 33m

Inez & The Jealous Controlling Narcissis...

Abuse Survivor Network
About this episode

Inez thought she met the man of her dreams. Inez truly believed that her new partner would give her the unconditional love she always wanted. However, Inez's ex was a wolf in sheep's clothing, mirroring her to get the control he always wanted.

It's a story of intergenerational trauma, reenactments, jealousy, control, sexual coercion, gaslighting, love bombing, empty promises, abuse cycles, future faking, guilt, denial, mirroring, self care, self discovery, silent treatments, ghosting, minimization, denial, rage, addiction, and invalidation.

*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses animal abuse and sexual coercion. ***

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