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Sep 2023
22m 44s

73: A quick way to get off the fence

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode

In this episode, I share a simple question that will help you ground yourself in reality, and actually move forward with life, if you're stuck on the fence over your relationship.

 

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Time Stamps:

2:48  Wanting to control or change my partner in order to continue in the relationship

3:58  Disclaimers about abusive relationships

7:56  Dealing with resentment in your relationship by “being on the fence”

9:45  Reasons we feel like we need to be in control of our partners

10:25  What to do when you’re on the fence

13:05  A question you can ask yourself if you’re on the fence

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