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Sep 2023
34m 32s

Are Difficult People Our Greatest Teache...

Gareth Michael & Kim Jewell
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In this week's episode, Gareth and Kim tackle a topic we all have to deal with from time to time: dealing with difficult people in our lives. They ask whether we may actually benefit from the growth that comes from these challenging interactions, and reflect on their own experiences and the learnings that came from them. They suggest that, rather than seeing these challenging individuals as obstacles, we can view them as mirrors reflecting our own unresolved issues and triggers. 

Gareth and Kim delve into the body's fight-or-flight response, emphasizing that recognizing these instinctive reactions can be transformative. They discuss the complexities of human interactions and the importance of understanding what sets us off, and how difficult it can be to get that perspective when we're triggered. They also touch on the importance of setting boundaries and the art of saying 'no' without feeling guilty or overwhelmed, and discuss the option of creating distance from those who disrespect our boundaries as a form of self-preservation.

As always, our hosts take a candid look at how these difficult interactions can actually be opportunities for personal growth within the framework of practical spirituality. The discussion has the potential to help listeners rethink their relationships with challenging people and use these experiences as tools for self-improvement.

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