#107. How do I set boundaries without feeling guilty? How do I keep the spark alive with my long-distance boyfriend? I hooked up with my guy friend, how do I move forward without it being awkward? In this installment of ASK P, we’re discussing all of these juicy Qs, and a few more. SHOP NEW NOTE TO SELF MERCH, THE LUCKY GIRL COLLECTION: https://shop.dearmedi ... Show More
Oct 15
The Q4 Agenda: 20 Things to Do Before 2027
#268. Before I go on podcast-sabbatical, I’m leaving you with an assignment: your Q4 agenda.This isn’t a winter arc, a life reset, or a list of impossible habits to master before January; it’s 20 worthwhile things to do with the last few months of the year. Think: getting your mo ... Show More
55m 7s
Oct 8
3 Perspectives Making My Life Significantly Better Right Now
#267. This week, we’re talking about three ideas making my life materially better (none of them are for sale). Satisficing, raising my uncertainty threshold, and creating as a response to over-thinking. BTW– next week’s episode is my last episode before a fall break! FOLLOW PAYTO ... Show More
51m 14s
Oct 1
ASK P: breakups, post-college life, & virginity talk
#266. In this installment of ASK P, we’re hearing from listeners about surprise breakups, pending breakups, adapting to life post-college, and losing your virginity in your 20s. This is the last ASK P of 2026 — be back in 2027! FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonross https ... Show More
1 h
Jul 2021
My Boyfriend Gives Me THE ICK?!?
This week the girls bring you another advice column episode! They answer your questions about living with your SO, age gaps when dating, getting rid of expectations, & lacking “experience” with boys. SHOP OUR MERCH DROP: shop.DearMedia.com/whatwesaid FOLLOW US! INSTA// WWS Jaci C ... Show More
42m 36s
Dec 2023
Guilt, Relationships, & Your Best Friend’s BF
You ask, we answer.
In this episode, we’re answer your DM’s like:
—What to do when your friend is dating someone you don’t think she should be dating
—How to get over guilt & shame from mistakes
—Handling conflict & hard relationships
—Waiting on a ring when you feel ready befo ... Show More
56m 35s
Jul 2022
30. how to know if he's playing you, romanticizing relationships, love bombing, how to stop judging women & MORE | Q&A
Hi girlies! Today's episode is a Q&A/advice session! Let's talk; spotting red flags of him playing you, leaving situationships, how to stop judging other women who you no longer align with, romanticizing relationships in your head, falling for men that you don't actually like, an ... Show More
37m 14s
Jun 2023
Q&A - Men in Relationships Liking Other Girls Pictures, Partner Gaining Weight in Relationship, Boys/Girls Trip Without Partner - Ep. 127
<p>In this weeks episode we are answering some questions our audience submitted to us:
1) Narcissism. 2) Men in Relationships liking other girls pictures. 3) Boys/Girls trips without partner. 4 )Partner gaining weight in a relationship. 5) Vasectomy or birth control.
Thank you f ... Show More
38m 57s