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Dec 2021
27m 53s

Season 4 Episode 7: Unicorn Hunters

Laura Boyle
About this episode

"There's a great series on TikTok by Claire of PolyPages comparing unicorn hunter bios to tech startup ads and I think that says a lot."

In today's episode, Laura disambiguates the terms "unicorn" and "Unicorn Hunters" and talks about the differences between unicorn hunting and simply dating in a triad dynamic. She talks about challenges of the triad dynamic, how power imbalances exist and can be mitigated or not, and how choices around those power imbalances define the unicorn hunting dynamic.

Some related blog posts:
https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/triad-questions
https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/new-triads-relationships-on-hard-mode
https://www.readyforpolyamory.com/post/what-is-a-one-penis-policy-and-what-are-unicorn-hunters

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