We're back with another Q&A episode this week! Today we'll be discussing some listener questions about using the word "love" in a relationship, polyamorous identity, and talking about non-monogamy with friends and family who think it's all about the sex. Join Dedeker and Orit Krug for our polyamory somatic retreat in northern Spain (September 22-25, 2025) - ... Show More
Nov 11
555 - Reclaiming Spirituality as a Queer, Polyamorous Person with Brian G. Murphy
We're thrilled to be welcoming back Brian G. Murphy as a guest to the show!Brian is an organizer, author, and certified relationship coach helping LGBTQ+ and polyamorous people build thriving relationships on their own terms... without shame or "should"s. Brian is also co-founder ... Show More
1h 4m
Jun 2025
Episode 409: Does “Body Count” Really Matter?
<p>How many people have you had sex with? In other words, what’s your “body count?” In this episode, we’re going to dive into the data. We’ll discuss the average number of sexual partners people report having, why men consistently report higher body counts than women, as we ... Show More
40m 48s
Oct 21
S5 Ep41: GBBO Let Us Judge Pastry Week Next Year !!!
<p>hiiiii lil bb freakssss!! we're continuing spooky season and answering questions y'all sent us after we've "gardened"! in this episode we talk about how we organize our bookshelves LMAO, our favorite things to do while gardening, and FMK: Bill Skarsgard, Tom Hiddleston, and Ni ... Show More
1h 2m
Feb 2025
How To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung Pueblo
Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal ... Show More
1h 12m
Aug 2016
What The Hell Is "Monogamish"?
***Warning. Explicit content*** Do we need to re-think monogamous relationships? In a world of monogamy, polyamory, open relationships and swinging, we look at the case for being "monogamish". This week’s listener question is a ballsy one: what's best practise for tickling testic ... Show More
35m 58s
Feb 2025
What's Love Got to Do with It: “Couples’ Therapy,” Narcissism, and Open Relationships with Dr. Orna Guralnik
<p>Is there anything more captivating than watching couples work through their deepest, messiest relationship drama on screen? Honestly, probably not, y’all. So today, we’re talking to the brilliant Dr. Orna Guralnik, the psychoanalyst behind the award-winning docuseries “Couples ... Show More
45m 3s
Nov 2024
#244 Rediscovering Your Sexuality Post Breakup with Dr. Tara
<p>Today on the podcast I have sex and relationship expert Dr. Tara. She is a tenured professor, podcast host, and co-host of Celebs Go Dating. In this episode we talk about how to use your breakup as a time to rediscover your sexual identity, how to get more comfortable talking ... Show More
41m 50s
Oct 24
Do You Feel Like Everybody Sucks? Here's a 10-Minute Pain Reliever.
If the idea of "sending love to all beings" makes you roll your eyes, this episode is for you. Dan leads a guided meditation, suitable for all levels of experience. Originally recorded during one of our live sangha gatherings on Substack, which are open to paid subscribers at Dan ... Show More
12m 55s